Domestic Violence and Bullying

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Domestic violence is one of the important causes that our organization sheds light on. On The Call podcast sat with Arrow the Symbol (On The Call S7 Ep 12) who spoke about an instance of abuse with a young boy. Men women and children can be victims of such abuse. It can affect anyone at any time. Below are a few thoughts on this issue.

What is Domestic Violence?


Domestic violence refers to a pattern of abusive behavior in a relationship where one person seeks to gain power and control over another. It involves various forms of physical, emotional, sexual, or financial abuse inflicted upon a partner or family member. Domestic violence can have severe and lasting impacts on the victim’s physical and mental well-being, as well as affect the overall dynamics within the household. We need to raise awareness, support survivors.

What is bullying?

Bullying refers to repeated aggressive behavior, generally among children or teenagers, that involves a power imbalance. It can occur physically, verbally, or through social manipulation, causing distress or harm to the targeted person. Bullying can take place in various settings, including schools, workplaces, or even online platforms.

Advice for Victims

Being a victim of domestic violence can be an incredibly challenging and delicate situation. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, here are some important steps to consider:

  1. Safety First: Your safety should be the top priority. If you’re in immediate danger, call emergency services or your local helpline. If possible, try to have a safety plan in place, such as identifying a safe place to go and keeping important documents and emergency numbers accessible.
  2. Seek Support: Reach out to trusted friends, family members, or support organizations who can provide emotional support and guidance. They can help you connect with resources in your community that specialize in domestic violence support.
  3. Confidentiality: Be cautious about discussing your situation with your abuser or others who may disclose information to them. Seek support from individuals or organizations who can maintain your confidentiality.
  4. Legal Protection: Consider obtaining a restraining order or protection order to help ensure your safety. Consult with a lawyer or seek advice from your local domestic violence center for legal options available to you.
  5. Counseling and Therapy: Engaging in therapy or counseling can provide valuable support and help you heal from the emotional and psychological effects of domestic violence. Look for professionals who specialize in trauma and domestic violence.
  6. Financial Independence: If possible, work on establishing financial independence. This can include finding employment, setting up a separate bank account, or seeking assistance from organizations that provide financial support for individuals leaving abusive relationships.
  7. Self-Care and Healing: Take time to prioritize your well-being. Engage in activities that bring you joy, practice self-care, and consider joining support groups where you can connect with others who have experienced similar situations.

Remember, you are not alone, and there are people who can help you navigate this difficult journey. Reach out for support and know there is hope for a better future.

Arrow, The Symbol, formerly known as Felisha George, is a recording artist, performer, lyricist and conjurer of rhythmic color, who walked the same school hallways as artists such as Lauryn Hill, Bisa Butler, and Sza. She was on the first season, of Netflix’s Rhythm and Flow, hosted by T. I, Cardi B, and Chance The Rapper, and made it into the Top 16 contestants. In season 7 episode 12, Arrow the Symbol talks about the abuse of a non-verbal boy who was hung by his feet in his classroom by his teacher.

The NYC Anti-Violence Project is a great resource for people in the NYC area. They are located at 16 Nassau St #3, New York, NY 10038.

The Anti-Violence Project, (AVP) is another resource. committed to addressing and ending gender-based and sexualized violence on campus and beyond. They are located in Vancouver.

The Domestic Violence Project is a NYC based organization who, are a team of lawyers, advocates, and volunteers serving survivor needs in all  five boroughs.

The National Coalition of Domestic Violence is an organization that provides resources for people who have experienced domestic violence.. They have projects like a hotline , a conference and Project Opal that support survivors.